When something is happening and you feel strong negative emotion it is pointless
to try to cover it up with a bright, happy thought. When your
radio signal is set on 106 FM you cannot hear what's being
broadcast on 98.7 FM. The frequencies are too far apart.
Because of what is happening in your environment, you are more
likely to be focused on something gone wrong, so you can't
immediately focus on, "my life is perfect in every way". This is
partly because you have been trained to "face reality" and "tell it
like it is", but also because those frequencies are pretty far
apart.
If something happens and you feel despair and one of your well
meaning friends tries to help you by being cheerful, all you do is
justify more vehemently why you feel like you do. Their happiness
just makes you feel even more like a failure. And their guidance
just makes you feel like you would like to smack them along side of
their head. There is nothing worse than feeling the opposite of who
you are and how you want to feel while some positive thinker is
flapping in your face about how you create your own reality. You
feel like saying, "I am sure that is not true, or you wouldn't be
in my reality in this moment!"
But when you understand it is not your job or even possible to
find a really good feeling thought from that bad
feeling thought, you can work out of it slowly. If you are in
despair about something, instead of trying to change it completely,
perhaps you could find a little gratitude in something else to
soften your energy. If you are having trouble forgiving someone,
perhaps you could feel a little better if you forgave yourself for
something that you might have done in the past. Sometimes we
cannot come out of despair, lack of forgiveness or other negative
emotions completely because the frequencies from despair to
happiness or total forgiveness to loving the other person are too
far apart, but if you will take a small step in that direction, it
can make a huge difference.
Even frustration is better than despair or lack of forgiveness.
From frustration you can find hope and from hope you can find just
about anything that you want. The reason so many people have given
up on any awareness of what their emotions are telling them and
doing something about it is the leap seems too far from where they
are. All it takes is some small steps and you will get there!
Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation
that you are making progress - IF YOU LOOK FOR IT! No matter how
large or small, please record it in your Evidence Journal. It will
only take a few moments and will AUTOMATICALLY put you in the Flow.
Truly Caring for Your Success!
Dr. Robert Anthony
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