Does He Like Me Or Not?

Have you ever been in a situation where you really like a guy but
don't know if he feels the same about you or not? Maybe you meet
just as friends or work colleagues, you have great conversations
every time you meet and feel as though he would be perfect for you.

However you want to take things further, but just wish he would
make the first move!

I got an article by Matthew Hussey, author of the ebook "Secrets of the Male Mind ebook" that I thought would be great to post for those women who are single:

"Does He Like Me Or Not?"

Do you catch him looking over?

Let me tell you the biggest secret about men: GUYS. AREN'T. THAT.
SUBTLE.

So many women I know have guys who like them all the time, but they
dismiss it as "Oh, he's just being friendly." Or: "I'm not sure why
he's looking over at me".

Trust me, guys who make frequent eye contact are attracted. If he's
looking over a lot at your group then he's dying for conversation.

Does he position himself near you?

Proximity is a key sign of initial attraction.

If a guy spots a girl he likes in the venue, rest assured he'll
make steps to positioning himself near her. This is also an open
invite for conversation. He is trying to make it easier to talk to
you, or pluck up the courage to say something.

Equally in bars and bookshops, guys will find ways to drift closer
to girls they're attracted to even if they don't have the courage
to strike up conversation.

Does he lean in during conversation?

When in conversation, notice how the guy moves his body. The best
sign is to look for is what we call pecking. Put simply, pecking is
when a guy leans in closer to listen every time you speak.

We tend to be more attentive to people we're attracted to; Because
we're interested in them we make a greater effort to catch every
part of what they are saying.

So try and be aware of how he leans his body towards you or moves
in closer as you speak.

Does he offer information that you didn't ask for?

When you're in conversation with a guy, listen closely to see the
information he offers.

If he starts dropping in any kind of boasts or achievements without
you asking then it's a fair bet he is trying to impress you. Guys
do this to girls they are attracted to because its a form of
showing off what they perceive to be their best assets.

Does he try and re-initiate conversation?

Once you've built enough rapport with a guy, allow the conversation
to lull and see if he re-initiates.

If he tries to start a new topic or move the conversation forward
it's because he doesn't want you to leave. If he's not attracted to
you he'll probably excuse himself as soon as conversation runs dry.

Does he find excuses to touch you?

Guys will attempt to be more physical with women they're attracted
to.

Notice if he tries to touch you playfully on the arm, if he grabs
you cheekily from the waist, or even if he plays little games like
a thumb-war with you!

Men will always make excuses to have physical contact with the
women they like, no matter how small it seems.

All this takes is an awareness of the signs. You won't believe how
many women who completely fail to notice how many men are attracted
to them simply because they weren't aware of the signs.

So there you have it, simple steps to follow right? If you follow
them correctly and pluck up the courage to take things further,
then you will get the guy you want... I've spoken to women about
this so many times and it always gets more complicated the longer
you leave, so get moving!

If you're absolutely serious about this guy and for some reason
just can't take things to the next level, then you really need to
check out my Secrets of the Male Mind ebook. You would be amazed at
the response it's been getting from women in the same position...

I've spoken to women who have known guys they've fancied
for well over a year if not longer and could never understand why
the guy didn't approach them or if they were even attracted to
them. After reading the ebook, it's a totally different story. They finally
understand why guys act the way they do! So it really will get you
started, make sure you check it RIGHT NOW:

Secrets of the Male Mind eBook

Kind regards,
Matthew Hussey