An great article by Dr John Demartini

THE TRUTH OF 'I LOVE YOU' The three words 'I LOVE YOU' can be for some the most challenging words to say and yet also the most commonly appreciated words for people to hear. Many people hold back on sharing their love and appreciation for others because of a fear of rejection. I often ask my clients what they would do if they were told they only had 24 hours to live. In all, if not most cases, they say they would make sure they used their last hours to say 'Thank you, I love you' to all of the people they feel contributed towards their lives. At the core of every human being, we all just want to be loved and appreciated for who we are. So letting someone know that you love them is one of the most precious gifts you can give. Whether Mother's Day or Father's Day, Valentine's Day or Children's Day, when it comes to those you love, find a way to share your appreciation and the truth of your heart. When asked the best way to overcome the fear of saying 'I love you', I suggest the following: Write down 25 benefits to you of your sharing the words 'I love you' with the person you wish to share your heart with, and then also write down 25 drawbacks to you of not sharing the words 'I love you' with them. Whenever we see more benefits than drawbacks in an outcome, we take action. Write down all the things you fear may occur if you say 'I love you' and then take each item you listed and ask how it will benefit you if it occurs. Every situation has a balance of support and challenge and no matter what happens you will always experience both sides. Write down 25 benefits to the person hearing you say you love them and 25 drawbacks for that person if you do not tell them. When you perceive more benefits to them of hearing the truth of your heart you will feel inspired to tell them you love them. In our daily relationships we swing back and forth between like and dislike, attract and repel, yet are these not the two arms walking hand in hand as one in a balanced gait - truthfully called love. True love is the synthesis and synchronicity of all complementary emotions - a balance between the attractive and repulsive emotional extremes. It is a pure energy that permeates our entire existence. When applied to a romantic or intimate relationship, true love emerges as you come to appreciate both the positive and negative, good and bad, happy and sad and ups and downs of a relationship. You realize that the purpose of a relationship is not only romance, joy, support and so-called happiness; it is also equally about learning, challenge, growth and personal evolution. True love is our ultimate objective, whether we're aware of it or not. We may think we're looking for something else, something material and fleeting, but even the pursuit of transient goals just leads us back to the truth of love. The purpose of all relationships is to dissolve the barriers that keep us from recognizing the love that already is and expressing the love we ultimately are. Love and wisdom, Dr. John Demartini     Share:       The Infinite Wisdom of Love DVD Purchase now for US $40 Be prepared to open your eyes to a new perspective where thoughts, love and gratitude have the power to shape your reality.     The Heart of Love Book Purchase now for US $15 This book will help both men and women understand what really drives human behavior in romance, business, and families and as a result come to appreciate the true meaning of connecting with others.       Pressure of Valentine's Day     Longevity Magazine - Dr. Demartini on mother-in-law and daughter-in-law dynamics Are you experiencing challenges with your mother-in-law? Read this article in which Dr. Demartini shares insightful tips on how to set yourself free to love and appreciate your mother-in-law, instead of resenting her.     Live Life Balanced - Less stress, more balance Dr. Demartini recommends gratitude as a stress-combating exercise. The more gratitude we have, the more events we will be given to be grateful for. Gratitude ensures a poised and balanced mind and transforms imbalanced distress into poised eustress.     Madison Australia Magazine - How to ask for a raise Dr. Demartini spells out a 5-step action plan on how to ask for a raise and thereby increase your self-wealth including how to raise your self-worth, dissolve limiting financial and self-beliefs and raise your overall power, vision and income earning capacity.     Baby Bull Show - Setting goals and intentions If we set goals that are not ours, we tend to set up a self defeating objective and we automatically beat ourselves up. If we set goals that has evidence that these are really important to us, we build and increase momentum.     For full information on the Breakthrough Experience please download our Breakthrough Brochure by clicking below...

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