The habit of meditation is one of the most powerful things I've ever learned.
Amazingly, it's also one of the most simple habits to do - you can do it
anywhere, any time, and it will always have immediate benefits.
How many habits can you say that about?
While
many people think of meditation as something you might do with a
teacher, it can be as simple as paying attention to your breath while
sitting in your car or on the train, or while sitting at the coffee shop
or in your office, or while walking or showering.
It can take just one or two minutes if you're busy. There's no excuse for not doing it, when you simplify the meditation
habit.
Why Meditate?
Why create a small daily meditation practice? There are countless reasons, but here are some of my favorite:
- It relieves stress and helps you to relax.
- When you practice mindfulness, you can carry it out to everyday life.
- Mindfulness helps you to savour life, change habits, live simply and slowly, be present in everything you do.
- Meditation has been shown to have mental benefits, such as improved focus, happiness, memory, self-control, academic performance and more.
- Some research on meditation has indicated that it may have other health benefits, including improved metabolism, heart rate, respiration, blood pressure and more.
Actually,
some of the best benefits of
meditation are hard to define - you being to understand yourself better,
for example, and form a self-awareness level you've never had before.
Most
simply, sitting for just a few minutes of meditation is an oasis of
calm and relaxation that we rarely find in our lives these days. And
that, in itself,
is enough.
How to Do It Daily
There
are lots and lots of ways to
meditate. But our concern is not to find a perfect form of meditation -
it's to form the daily habit of meditation. And so our method will be as
simple as possible.
1. Commit to just 2 minutes a day. Start simply if you want the habit to stick. You can do it for 5 minutes if
you feel good about it, but all you're committing to is 2 minutes each day.
2. Pick a time and trigger. Not
an exact time of day, but a general time, like morning when you wake
up, or during your lunch hour. The trigger should be something you
already do regularly, like drink
your first cup of coffee, brush your teeth, have lunch, or arrive home
from work.
3. Find a quiet spot. Sometimes
early morning is best, before others in your house might be awake and
making lots of noise. Others might find a spot in a park or on the beach
or some other
soothing setting. It really doesn't matter where - as long as you can
sit without being bothered for a few minutes. A few people walking by
your park bench is fine.
4. Sit comfortably. Don't
fuss too much about how you sit, what you wear, what you sit on, etc. I
personally
like to sit on a pillow on the floor, with my back leaning against a
wall, because I'm very inflexible. Others who can sit cross-legged
comfortably might do that instead. Still others can sit on a chair or
couch if sitting on the floor is uncomfortable.
5. Start with
just 2 minutes. This is really important. Most people will
think they can meditate for 15-30 minutes, and they can. But this is not
a test of how strong you are at staying in meditation - we are trying
to form a longer-lasting habit. And to do that, we want to start with
just a two minutes. You'll find it much easier to start this way, and
forming a habit with a small start like this is a method much more
likely to succeed. You can expand to 5-7 minutes if you can do it
for 7 straight days, then 10 minutes if you can do it for 14 straight
days, then 15 minutes if you can stick to it for 21 straight days, and
20 if you can do a full month.
6. Focus on your breath. As
you breathe in, follow you breath in through your nostrils, then into
your
throat, then into your lungs and belly. Sit straight, keep your eyes
open but looking at the ground and with a soft focus. If you want to
close your eyes, that's fine. As you breathe out, follow your breath out
back into the world. If it helps, count... one breath in, two breath
out, three breath in, four breath out... when you get to 10, start over.
If you lose track, start over. If you find your mind wandering (and you
will), just pay attention to your mind wandering, then bring it gently
back to your breath. Repeat this process for the few minutes you
meditate. You won't be very good at it at first, most likely, but you'll
get better with practice.
And
that's it. It's a very simple practice, but you want to do it for 2
minutes, everyday, after the same trigger each day. Do this for a
month and you'll have a daily meditation habit.
Meditation is simple right? If you do this for a month, I guarantee you that you will see breakthrough results in your life.
To Your Dreams and Success,
Carter Lane
Founder, Law of Attraction (LOA) System
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